Why Some People Struggle (and How to Break Free)
Life no balance, we all know that. But have you ever wondered why some people seem to always be on a steady grind — barely surviving, always stressed, never catching a break? Meanwhile, others are out here living soft life, sipping juice and minding vibes. 🥤✨
Let’s be real — sometimes it’s not just “bad luck.” There are deeper reasons why some people struggle more than others. And if we don’t talk about it, how will we break free?
1. Fear of Change
Some people stay stuck because they’re scared to leave their comfort zone. They’ll complain about a toxic job, but won’t even update their CV. They hate their city, but won’t try moving. Change is uncomfortable — but growth never happens without it.
2. Comparison Wahala
Scrolling Instagram and seeing “age 23, CEO of 5 companies” can make you feel like you’re behind in life. 🤦🏽♀️ But comparison is a thief — it makes you chase shadows instead of your own path. People struggle because they’re too busy competing with others instead of building themselves.
3. Lack of Self-Discipline
Let’s call it as it is: success needs consistency. Some people struggle because they want results without routine. They want six-pack but can’t leave shawarma. 🍗 They want money but spend every naira on vibes. Discipline may not be sexy, but it’s the cheat code to breaking free.
4. Wrong Circle of Friends
Your vibe attracts your tribe, but your tribe can also kill your vibe. If your circle is full of lazy, negative, and unmotivated people, you’ll struggle to rise. Birds of a feather… either fly high together or eat crumbs together. 🚀
5. Refusing to Learn New Skills
The world is moving FAST. AI, tech, new opportunities — and some people are still stuck in 1999 mindset. 🤷🏽 If you refuse to learn, you’ll keep struggling in a world that’s evolving without you. Growth requires updating yourself, not just your phone.
Final Gist
Struggle isn’t always permanent — it’s a mindset, a habit, and sometimes a choice. Breaking free starts with honesty: asking yourself, “What am I doing (or not doing) that’s keeping me stuck?”
The truth? You deserve better. But wanting better means doing better. Nobody is coming to save you — it’s your move.
🔥 If this gist touched you, it’s time to shake things up. Drop the excuses, pick the discipline, and change the circle. Struggle no be destiny — it’s just a season you can step out of.